The Message of The WISHBONE

by Administrator on January 11, 2011


When I wrote this in October 2007, I only shared this creative burst with a small circle of friends that I believed wouldn’t judge me.  I couldn’t reconcile this ministry of pleasure, bliss and sensuality as being “acceptable” by the mainstream. In truth, I was still conforming and containing my own pleasure. This post is an activation my creativity, abundance and passion trusting The Universe to make room for my gifts. Gifts that I literally have been sitting on.   Today on 1/1/11 , I share my first blog post affirming that “I am safe to be and express a pleasure-filled blueprint as a healer, student and teacher.”  Are you sitting on your gifts?If you are a woman, I submit an EMPHACTIC, “YES”!!!!! You are sitting on your gift  and it is a part of both your physical and spiritual anatomy.

A couple of nights ago, I was watching a program called The Anatomy of Sex. I believe it was on Discovery Health. I learned something new and very useful. In fact, I learned something very spiritual. The clitoris is shaped like a WISHBONE. Many of us has been taught to think of “only” the small pearl shaped organ, covered by the hood. Nope, the nerve endings create the shape of a WISHBONE that create angelic waves of orgasmic pleasure beyond our vulvas! Think about that! Therefore, this organ is designed for pleasure at various points in the body. What “they” explained on this documentary is that vaginal orgasms are a myth. It’s really the clitoris being stimulated or rubbed at certain spots during intercourse that create various levels of orgasmic energy. However, I know and other experts will tell you that vaginal orgasms are NOT a myth at all. There are several seats of orgasmic release housed in this womb temple. We could really “go there” on those deeply, pleasurable, juicy releases and their messages. Okay, that’s not my point though!
Back to the wishbone!I was thinking about us as women and what we’ve been taught to believe or disbelieve about pleasure, being pleasing and/or the mask of pleasantries. While digesting the science pleasure,  it was evident of how dogma has conditioned many  through religion to be cut off from a full embrace of our sexuality, thus pleasure. When we study the history of cultures prior to Constantine, many communities were sexually free. To experience the Kundalini energy was a high spiritual experience. Today, it still is. Don’t you know oh so well that when we are in the throes of pleasure, we say, “Oh God!” or we simply breath deeply? It’s is called the HA breath. Well, the HA or Ah is the translation for the names of God.  Even when in the worship experience, HA-leiluiah is the highest praise. This sound can be found no matter the name we call God, Goddess, All that is. My point is this indeed is that sexual/sensual pleasure a high spiritual experience when held in higher esteem coupled with deliberate surrender. 
Back to the wishbone! Pleasure for a woman is her seat of power. It is her creative power. When we study The Law of Creation, appropriately named, there are some signals to our spiritual power. The Law of Creation is also known as The Law of Attraction, recently made famous by the movie The Secret. The Law of Creation (a/k/a attraction) simply says, “Whatever you put your attention on expands.” Yes, EXPANDS!!! What wishes would you like to expand? This one law became rather popular, although there several (7-9) core Universal Laws that all work together and can be found in the Esoteric teaching of Jesus. In other words, its supported by scripture. Therefore, those that “need” it now have permission to make room for pleasure. As a Metaphysican, I always love going into the deeper meaning, no pun intended here. Metaphysics is the term used to study that which is beyond the physical, beyond what we can touch, see, taste and feel. The Universal Laws are the non-physical principles that govern our Universe in an unfailing, impartial, consistent and dependable fashion.  I’ll have to get back to this, if you need me to.

Back to the wishbone! So, as we focus on our pleasure, allow pleasure and embrace pleasure in our lives we become more powerful to attract a/k/a create the lives we want. We become magnets for our manifestation. What if we taught women to be selective or celibate because of “this” truth and power rather than punishment, guilt and shame? What if we knew this was a seat of power and when we auction it off mindlessly, it depletes our ability to be attractive to the very desires we have. What if, we were taught to use our sexual pleasure to manifest and worship the Divinity within?  What if, we took our wish bone out of the mental and emotional prisons our core beliefs have created?  Whether single or married. . . . .What if, we knew that our pleasure is a ((((secret accelerator))))  or tool  to opening the gates  to usher us into manifesting our vision?

This is the power of The Goddess (God Is). This gift is a gateway. It is our portal to open the way to our desires. Which takes me back to The Law of Attraction:

Ester Hicks reminds us in her work to. . . .
1.)  Ask- This is a feminine demonstration of receptivity. So many of us have forgotten or never used the muscle of “asking” for anything. We are asking consciously or unconsciously all the time, anyway. Matthew 7:7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”

 2.) The Universe Answers – This part is not our job. This is where it may look like we need to “do” something. Control freaks may hve to find a new fetish. (LOL!!) In other words, this is were we must surrender and practice detachment from the outcome, while raising our expectation. We always get what we’ve asked for – conscious or unconscious also! Matthew 11:24 ” Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” 

3.) Allow – This is our work to align with what we’ve asked for and our intern G.P.S. has answered. So, by the time that it manifest it’s only evidence of our alignment.  Did you get that? It is EVIDENCE of what is already ours.  Habakkuk 2:2-3 “Then the Lord answered me and said: “Write the vision And make it plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it. 3 For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, It will not tarry.”

This is the breakdown for many of us, well at least it was for me for me. So, back to the wishbone! Living an orgasmic life and embracing our desire via pleasue creates a cycle, a wave or vibration. The pleasure (fun, creativity, play, flirting, receiving compliments, orgasm, fulfilment of purpose) supports us in the Allowing process. This is where the connection to setting the other laws in motion. . . .
~ The Law of Detachment (aka the Law of Allowing) says that in order to intentionally attract something, we must relinquish our attachment to it. This is the surrender! trust! During the orgasm process there is detachment from reality as endorphins are released for our good.
~  The Law of Unlimited Potential (aka the Law of Pure Potentiality) says that we are unlimited children of a very prosperous, powerful, omnipotent, impartial, all-providing, all-sufficient, all-loving Father/Mother/God.This is using our imagination (vision/meditation). We can have it before we have it.
~  The Law of Reciprocity (aka the Law of Giving) says that as you give you shall receive. Give and Forgive.
~  The Law of Cause and Effect: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Reaping and Sowing in your own life.

So Ladies. . . .remember The Wishbone and it’s spiritual message. It blessed me and confirmed my own process of relaxing and following my bliss. I love you! Feel free to share you thoughts & comments. 
Before I salute you - Here are a few quotes, I pulled from my teachers to support my thinking aloud:
“As we study the laws that govern our Universe, we see certain empirical Truths. It is through the study of these Universal Principles and Truths that we master our creative abilities.  With study, we begin to comprehend the profound implications of each law; we become more and more conscious of the power of our intentionality and of our minds; more and more conscious of the unwavering influence of our thoughts, emotions and beliefs on our experience.”   (LOA Coach Anisa Aven)
“All is well. You did not come here to fix a broken world. The world is not broken. You came here to live a wonderful life. And if you can learn to relax a little and let it all in, you will begin to see the universe present you with all that you have asked for.” – Abraham
They say YOU create your own reality and the universe is simply reflecting back to you the essence of how you’re feeling about it!
Joseph Campbell said, “Follow your bliss.”
“Deep satisfaction, happiness, and that “glow” are yours for life – but only through your understanding, integration and mastery of The Womanly Arts. By helping you tap into the very center of your pleasure and helping you learn to speak the language of your desires, we will teach you how use the power of pleasure to have your way with the world. By fanning the flames of your desires, you open the door to pleasure and fun for everyone. Your desires spring forth, and your life changes; your life changes, and the world follows suit – this is the magnificence and power of a lit-up woman.” (Mama Gena – School for The Womanly Arts)

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Cyndy Cecil-Bragg January 11, 2011 at 3:46 pm

La Tonia,
How amazing to have this picture and the knowledge that the clitoris is shaped like a wishbone! I’m in awe. Beautifully written. Thank you. Keep ‘em coming!

Charise January 11, 2011 at 6:22 pm

YES! Yes! Yes! I CELEBRATE, Acknowledge, and Deeply love you my beautiful, amazing Sistah. Congratulations on giving birth on 1/11/11 and sharing more of Who you are with the world. Your unique journey and perspective is soooooo Necessary right here, right Now. Thank you for being True to you and showing up :) . So many people and in particular women are severly deficient in Vitamin P and Pleasure/Joy/Bliss is the very elixir of life. It’s our natural state of Being.

A woman who is in touch with and honors her Femininity, Divinity and Sensuality is intimately connected to her life force (the seat of her power & intuition) and owns her juiciness, her bliss.

“Ecstasy is our very nature; not to be ecstatic is simply unnecessary.” ~Osho

cynthia bond January 11, 2011 at 7:49 pm

My Sista, between the tears of joy, my heart is continuing to fill up. Thank you for your words to encourage me, and knowing that I am not my sisters keeper I am my sister, to free myself from myself. Thank you for the reminder to release what gifts God has given me to the world! You are brilliant and I am EXCITED that you are ready to share your brillance with the world!

Vikki January 11, 2011 at 8:09 pm

Welcome to the “Wonder of Walking on the Water of Purpose!” I’m so very happy for you and appreciate your wisdom, your wounds, and your words of life!

YES! I’m loving the “pleasure principles” that make me a “magnet for manifestation”, a “weapon of mass seduction”, a “secret accelerator”, and a “lit-up” woman!

Thank you for BEing you so that I can BE ME!

Coach Khayr January 11, 2011 at 8:56 pm

Whew Child,
You blessed them with this one. Came out the box HARD on ‘em. Now I need more. Congrats on this one & thank you for setting the tempo. Quit holding back too. You not here to be accepted, you here to be FREE!!! LET’S ROCK!!! Free these women up. Educate these Knuckleheaded men:) Keep feeding Khayr, I’m Hungry for your wisdom. As a matter of fact, I’m ready to make some wishes RIGHT NOW!!! MMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmm. I’m glad you just gave me & the world some jewels to work with.

Much Love & Thanks Rev P :) Keep it coming. . . . xo

The King

Rashida January 11, 2011 at 9:24 pm

Wow!!! I am so proud of you Suga! This is really really informative and needed. Thank you for putting your gift of teaching in writing. Also, how come you just now writing a blog!? This bet not be the last! Lol

Stacey January 11, 2011 at 11:32 pm

Sis, I am so extremely proud of you and the work you do…the contribution you make..the life you live..and the lives you touch. Keep sharing, keep healing, keeping speaking out loud. We need to hear what you have to say.

meaha Walcott January 12, 2011 at 8:37 am

Exhalingggggggggggg!! I needed to read this badly, and need to read it over and over again, thanks for sharing!

PeaJae January 12, 2011 at 12:05 pm

HA leiluiah! Ahhhh!!! Thank you for answering your call, thank you for surrendering. Thank you for Teaching…cuz as we know teaching and learning is the same thing. Whew! I must share this and I am sooooo eternally grateful for this blessed wishbone of mine! I am grateful that you, my dear sister, are helping women to EXPAND…and make their wishes come true!
Bless you baybee! Keep em coming!

Brooks January 12, 2011 at 1:13 pm

This is so beautiful. Thank you for sprinkling the world with your kindness and love. Amazing. More please! :)

Tonya January 12, 2011 at 3:44 pm

I see you…..transformation after transformation after transformation…this is what it’s all about. I appreciate you more than you already know. Remain open, vulnerable, honest, accountable, responsible, lovable, hopeful, sexual, sensual, joyful, masterful, most of all, BLISSFUL to yourself, as yourself, and for ALL. I love you, Master Goddess LT.

janine January 12, 2011 at 5:42 pm

this is the most amazing blend of scientific information, worship, and pleasure that i have seen in a loooong time. your timing is impeccable. thank you for bringing it all around in such a fluid form and getting us all back on our spot. I am so ready to receive the genius pouring through you. I cannot wait to talk to you and hear your amazing self inhabitation take me deeper and deeper. for now, i need to excuse myself and go make a wish….

Daryl January 12, 2011 at 9:12 pm

What a Brilliant and sexy women you are. I got a bone reading about your wishbone. LOL. Love you Sis. Stay Awesome!!!

Grace January 13, 2011 at 1:49 am

I love the site, the blog, and your persistence to continue to move and transform to the next level, and inspire others in the process. Keep keepin on! Love ya!

Sharon/Sha RA January 13, 2011 at 8:02 pm

Thank you so much for having the courage to share what you really desired to share! You are inspiring me!!!
I totally agree that sexual energy is Divine. I don’t agree with the Discovery Health program that vaginal orgasms are a myth. Here is a very cool video that shows men how to give a woman a “Deep Spot Orgasm.”
It is beautifully & respectfully done. The author is David Shade. He has another cool website called: (I’m thinking he could be a resource for Mama Gena in her “man training.” :)
I believe every man and woman on the planet should have this info. It will really raise the frequency of the planet when everyone knows how to give & receive great pleasure!!!
SG Sharon

Sarah June January 13, 2011 at 8:13 pm

La Tonia,

This was very inlighting. I appreciate you passing this on to us.

Sarah June

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