When I wrote this in October 2007, I only shared this creative burst with a small circle of friends that I believed wouldn’t judge me. I couldn’t reconcile this ministry of pleasure, bliss and sensuality as being “acceptable” by the mainstream. In truth, I was still conforming and containing my own pleasure. This post is an activation my creativity, abundance and passion trusting The Universe to make room for my gifts. Gifts that I literally have been sitting on. Today on 1/1/11 , I share my first blog post affirming that “I am safe to be and express a pleasure-filled blueprint as a healer, student and teacher.” Are you sitting on your gifts?
If you are a woman, I submit an EMPHACTIC, “YES”!!!!! You are sitting on your gift and it is a part of both your physical and spiritual anatomy.
A couple of nights ago, I was watching a program called The Anatomy of Sex. I believe it was on Discovery Health. I learned something new and very useful. In fact, I learned something very spiritual. The clitoris is shaped like a WISHBONE. Many of us has been taught to think of “only” the small pearl shaped organ, covered by the hood. Nope, the nerve endings create the shape of a WISHBONE that create angelic waves of orgasmic pleasure beyond our vulvas! Think about that! Therefore, this organ is designed for pleasure at various points in the body. What “they” explained on this documentary is that vaginal orgasms are a myth. It’s really the clitoris being stimulated or rubbed at certain spots during intercourse that create various levels of orgasmic energy. However, I know and other experts will tell you that vaginal orgasms are NOT a myth at all. There are several seats of orgasmic release housed in this womb temple. We could really “go there” on those deeply, pleasurable, juicy releases and their messages. Okay, that’s not my point though!
Back to the wishbone!I was thinking about us as women and what we’ve been taught to believe or disbelieve about pleasure, being pleasing and/or the mask of pleasantries. While digesting the science pleasure, it was evident of how dogma has conditioned many through religion to be cut off from a full embrace of our sexuality, thus pleasure. When we study the history of cultures prior to Constantine, many communities were sexually free. To experience the Kundalini energy was a high spiritual experience. Today, it still is. Don’t you know oh so well that when we are in the throes of pleasure, we say, “Oh God!” or we simply breath deeply? It’s is called the HA breath. Well, the HA or Ah is the translation for the names of God. Even when in the worship experience, HA-leiluiah is the highest praise. This sound can be found no matter the name we call God, Goddess, All that is. My point is this indeed is that sexual/sensual pleasure a high spiritual experience when held in higher esteem coupled with deliberate surrender.
Back to the wishbone! Pleasure for a woman is her seat of power. It is her creative power. When we study The Law of Creation, appropriately named, there are some signals to our spiritual power. The Law of Creation is also known as The Law of Attraction, recently made famous by the movie The Secret. The Law of Creation (a/k/a attraction) simply says, “Whatever you put your attention on expands.” Yes, EXPANDS!!! What wishes would you like to expand? This one law became rather popular, although there several (7-9) core Universal Laws that all work together and can be found in the Esoteric teaching of Jesus. In other words, its supported by scripture. Therefore, those that “need” it now have permission to make room for pleasure. As a Metaphysican, I always love going into the deeper meaning, no pun intended here. Metaphysics is the term used to study that which is beyond the physical, beyond what we can touch, see, taste and feel. The Universal Laws are the non-physical principles that govern our Universe in an unfailing, impartial, consistent and dependable fashion. I’ll have to get back to this, if you need me to.
Back to the wishbone! So, as we focus on our pleasure, allow pleasure and embrace pleasure in our lives we become more powerful to attract a/k/a create the lives we want. We become magnets for our manifestation. What if we taught women to be selective or celibate because of “this” truth and power rather than punishment, guilt and shame? What if we knew this was a seat of power and when we auction it off mindlessly, it depletes our ability to be attractive to the very desires we have. What if, we were taught to use our sexual pleasure to manifest and worship the Divinity within? What if, we took our wish bone out of the mental and emotional prisons our core beliefs have created? Whether single or married. . . . .What if, we knew that our pleasure is a ((((secret accelerator)))) or tool to opening the gates to usher us into manifesting our vision?
This is the power of The Goddess (God Is). This gift is a gateway. It is our portal to open the way to our desires. Which takes me back to The Law of Attraction:
Ester Hicks reminds us in her work to. . . .
1.) Ask- This is a feminine demonstration of receptivity. So many of us have forgotten or never used the muscle of “asking” for anything. We are asking consciously or unconsciously all the time, anyway. Matthew 7:7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”
2.) The Universe Answers – This part is not our job. This is where it may look like we need to “do” something. Control freaks may hve to find a new fetish. (LOL!!) In other words, this is were we must surrender and practice detachment from the outcome, while raising our expectation. We always get what we’ve asked for – conscious or unconscious also! Matthew 11:24 ” Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”
3.) Allow – This is our work to align with what we’ve asked for and our intern G.P.S. has answered. So, by the time that it manifest it’s only evidence of our alignment. Did you get that? It is EVIDENCE of what is already ours. Habakkuk 2:2-3 “Then the Lord answered me and said: “Write the vision And make it plain on tablets, That he may run who reads it. 3 For the vision is yet for an appointed time; But at the end it will speak, and it will not lie. Though it tarries, wait for it; Because it will surely come, It will not tarry.”
This is the breakdown for many of us, well at least it was for me for me. So, back to the wishbone! Living an orgasmic life and embracing our desire via pleasue creates a cycle, a wave or vibration. The pleasure (fun, creativity, play, flirting, receiving compliments, orgasm, fulfilment of purpose) supports us in the Allowing process. This is where the connection to setting the other laws in motion. . . .
~ The Law of Detachment (aka the Law of Allowing) says that in order to intentionally attract something, we must relinquish our attachment to it. This is the surrender! trust! During the orgasm process there is detachment from reality as endorphins are released for our good.
~ The Law of Unlimited Potential (aka the Law of Pure Potentiality) says that we are unlimited children of a very prosperous, powerful, omnipotent, impartial, all-providing, all-sufficient, all-loving Father/Mother/God.This is using our imagination (vision/meditation). We can have it before we have it.
~ The Law of Reciprocity (aka the Law of Giving) says that as you give you shall receive. Give and Forgive.
~ The Law of Cause and Effect: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. Reaping and Sowing in your own life.
So Ladies. . . .remember The Wishbone and it’s spiritual message. It blessed me and confirmed my own process of relaxing and following my bliss. I love you! Feel free to share you thoughts & comments.
Before I salute you - Here are a few quotes, I pulled from my teachers to support my thinking aloud:
“As we study the laws that govern our Universe, we see certain empirical Truths. It is through the study of these Universal Principles and Truths that we master our creative abilities. With study, we begin to comprehend the profound implications of each law; we become more and more conscious of the power of our intentionality and of our minds; more and more conscious of the unwavering influence of our thoughts, emotions and beliefs on our experience.” (LOA Coach Anisa Aven)
“All is well. You did not come here to fix a broken world. The world is not broken. You came here to live a wonderful life. And if you can learn to relax a little and let it all in, you will begin to see the universe present you with all that you have asked for.” – Abraham
They say YOU create your own reality and the universe is simply reflecting back to you the essence of how you’re feeling about it!
Joseph Campbell said, “Follow your bliss.”
“Deep satisfaction, happiness, and that “glow” are yours for life – but only through your understanding, integration and mastery of The Womanly Arts. By helping you tap into the very center of your pleasure and helping you learn to speak the language of your desires, we will teach you how use the power of pleasure to have your way with the world. By fanning the flames of your desires, you open the door to pleasure and fun for everyone. Your desires spring forth, and your life changes; your life changes, and the world follows suit – this is the magnificence and power of a lit-up woman.” (Mama Gena – School for The Womanly Arts)